What if it’s a phase?
What if it is? That doesn’t stop you being asexual right now.
It may be tempting to hold back on accepting your asexuality in the hope that eventually you’ll ‘bloom’ into a sexual person. I’m not saying that might not eventually happen, but consider this: do you want to spend your life thinking of yourself as an undeveloped person, living for the dreamed of day when you’ll become whole? Might you feel more comfortable accepting who you are now as a whole complete valid person? Maybe one day you will “bloom”, and if and when you do, you won’t have lost anything by being comfortable in the mean time.
There’s no shame in identifying as one thing and then later identifying as another. Your identity isn’t meant to limit you. If you’ve moved on or changed, then by all means describe yourself differently. If you fear you might be different in the future, that doesn’t change which label is most useful to you in the present. There’s nothing wrong with change."
I feel this is something people need to read. This can apply to any sexuality, not just asexuality.
"Girl crush" is literally the female version of no homo
My girl crushes are 100% homo
How to color eggs with onion shells.
This must be the most beautiful DIY tutorial I have ever seen. And it so happens to be in style of this weekend. Found on Ulicam, a very nice blog by Ulrika Kestere, photographer and illustrator. For the whole tutorial and lot’s of inspiration, click here.
I think a lot of people don’t understand how extraordinary Jo and Jaime’s public embracing of the Bering and Wells ship is. Because that ship is NOT explicitly canon. It’s not Callie and Arizona or Gail and Holly or Santana and Brit.
For however blatant the writing is, its still a subtextual relationship and instead of joking about it (Rizzoli & Isles) or saying the fans are misinterpreting it (Once Upon a Time) or just tip-toeing around it until 10 years later (Xena) both Jo and Jaime have publicly, multiple times, flat out stated they developed that chemistry on purpose.
And that is fucking awesome and why they are our captains.
#i will also always enjoy how absolutely willing and ready and adamant Jo got about it NOT going the Pyka route#I genuinely think the women of hollywood (and Canada) have had it with the same story over and over#and if Jo strikes me as anything as an actress it’s someone who always wants to sink her teeth into something good#Anything good#Anything DIFFERENT#and it makes me think that entire last season must have been REALLLLY interesting working with her#because she also doesn’t strike me as someone that keeps quiet when she doesn’t like something#anymore than she kept quiet in interviews when she really did
WHY WAS I UNAWARE OF THE FACT THAT “DISGRUNTLED” IS, IN FACT, THE OPPOSITE OF “GRUNTLED”
WHY DOES NOBODY USE THIS WORD